Lately I have talked to more and more clients and people that I consult with about the issue of resolve. An issue that we all grapple with, whether we are going through divorce or not. How do any of us know when we are ready? Ready to leave a job. Get married. Have a child. Buy a house. Make a change. Or end a relationship. In my work I have the blessing of sitting with and helping people at the hardest time of their lives. Oftentimes I deal with victims of domestic violence, who want to leave but are deeply afraid of being physically harmed or of not having enough money to survive on their own. Or Fathers and Mothers who feel they cannot end a marriage because they are afraid that their partner will try to take away custody of their children.